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How To Fall In Love & Love Deeply

How To Fall In Love & Love Deeply

  How To Fall in Love & Love Deeply These are special thoughts that came to me while leading a group in Orlando. I was asked by the group members, “What is The Thing they have to do to make love last.” I was so caught up in the question trying to figure out what is that one thing we need to do, and I remembered my training as a psychoanalyst. I let myself realize I was being induced by…

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7 Ways To Build a Better Night’s Sleep

7 Ways To Build a Better Night’s Sleep

What’s going on everyone. Today we’re going to be talking about sleep, how sleep works and what you need to do to get a better night of sleep every night of your life. If you like what you learn here join my Facebook Group if you want to have instant access to me daily, and if you’re in the Orlando area and want to work with me in my office or want to work with me remotely if you’re anywhere…

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Are We Blank Slates? Freudian Reflections on Self, Soul, Spirit Psychology Part 2

Are We Blank Slates? Freudian Reflections on Self, Soul, Spirit Psychology Part 2

To get more personal contact with me daily and to talk about content like this more deeply join my Facebook Group to learn more. Myth 1. Freud Believed and founded Psychoanalysis on Tabula rasa As someone over a decade into my training as a Psychoanalyst I had never heard or seen theoretically or in practice that Freud believed in and founded psychoanalysis outside of biology, genetics and neurology while also using Tabula rasa, “blank slate” as a foundational piece for…

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Freudian Reflection on Dr. Roger Strachan | The Origins of Self Soul Spirit Psychology | Part 1

Freudian Reflection on Dr. Roger Strachan | The Origins of Self Soul Spirit Psychology | Part 1

Hey everyone. This is Part 1 of my Freudian Reflections on Self, Soul, Spirit Psychology. Down below I have given you the written transcripts of my reflections on each clip and each clip I am reflecting on of Andrew and Dr. Strachen can be heard in the video above with my reflections. I hope their words and these reflections give us something new to think about and possibly input into our lives. Clip 1 When I listen to someone new…

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Where Is My Relationship Going? Finding The Good Life

Where Is My Relationship Going? Finding The Good Life

We all want the good life. We are sold many different types of good lives. I hope this book The Good Life. Psychoanalytic Reflections on Love, Ethics, Creativity, and Spirituality by Jeffery B. Rubin helps us understand how to find the good life instead of just selling us another version of it. “A life of perversity is sterile, devitalized, and impoverished. One remains alienated from other people, who one tries to control, have power over, and silence. Intimacy cannot grow…

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How Marital Arguing Shortens Men’s Lives Part 2

How Marital Arguing Shortens Men’s Lives Part 2

Men, when you’re having an argument or in a fight with your spouse, it’s going to take you longer to calm down than a woman on average just because of biology. This means that you have to be responsible for your feelings and what you do while you’re trying to calm down. One of the major destructive actions men take is to repeat negative thoughts in their minds during and after an argument for an extended period of time. “She’s…

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How Marital Arguing Shortens Men’s Lives Part 1

How Marital Arguing Shortens Men’s Lives Part 1

There’s this idea that men don’t feel feelings, have feelings or express feelings. This idea comes from the non-critical thinking observer who project onto men what they want without actually trying to understand what is going on with men. It’s easier to dehumanize men if you keep telling everyone they don’t feel since if you don’t feel you’re obviously sub-human. Here is the research though. When men are in an argument, men go through more physical pain from that emotional…

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Why You Must Be The Moral Center of Your Relationship

Why You Must Be The Moral Center of Your Relationship

  Everyone takes Jordan Peterson’s talks and makes them political. It’s the easiest thing to do because everyone does it. But, regardless of what you think of him, how can Dr. Jordan Peterson’s critical thinking and thoughts create new ways for us to think about novel situations? Especially in our romantic relationships? This is The Jordan Peterson Analysis. Where we take clips of Jordan Peterson’s lectures and see how we can make them work for us in our romantic relationships….

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The Truth About Sexless Relationships: MGTOW vs Psychoanalysis Ep. 1

The Truth About Sexless Relationships: MGTOW vs Psychoanalysis Ep. 1

Here we explore The Truth About Sexless Relationships and start to understand the different types of advice that is out there and what research and psychoanalysis has to say when we look to understand Sexless Relationships. Not many know what MGTOW means and how this is effecting modern relationships. I myself have criticisms of the premise of Men Going Their Own Way, but you always have to listen to individuals in communities that are not your own to come up…

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Leave Your Miserable Relationship

Leave Your Miserable Relationship

Question from Subscriber: What do you say to those people who don’t pursue the meaningful relationship they need and are stuck in the bad relationship they are in because they are afraid to change? You should be afraid of pursuing a meaningful relationship because there are many trials and tribulations to get to a point where you can have a meaningful relationship. Then you have to find someone else who has done their own worthy trials and gone through their…

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