Ever woken up and suddenly faced the undelightful surprise of the woman you are laying next to? This woman you were so attracted to and really enjoyed being with, is a stranger who you have no clue on why you’re even with them. This case usually happens when a man chooses to be in a… Read More Soul Mate Myth: Blue Pill Automated Beliefs That Damage Your Love Life
Having studied psychoanalysis (psychic life and the deep, dark, and unconscious ways humans function) for over 10 years, I’ve found the simplest answer to understanding your relationship with your lover boils down to this: You need what keeps you alive. You desire those who give you what you need, but when you have too much of… Read More Negotiating Desire
There isn’t enough relevant information out there regarding how a man can attract the right lover for his life. There are more YouTube videos on watching paint dry than there are on understanding how men and women can have a long-term relationship that is satisfying. There are definitely videos out there, but they are categorized… Read More Where Can You Look to Become a High-Value Man?
“For every woman who commits suicide after their divorce, nine men commit suicide after their divorce (Kposowa A. J. 2000).” We’re going to get into the reasons for this statistic, but before we do that, know that if you’re living that hell right now and you’re looking for help, I’m a clinician in Orlando, Florida,… Read More Preventing Male Suicide After Divorce
Izzy’s Orgasm Izzy had been talking for months about her upbringing and all the residues of events in her early childhood she could see working in her current life. As if unintentionally falling out from her lips she blurted out, “I can’t believe I got married at 18.” It was curious that I had not… Read More Marriage Proposal to Orgasm. Are They the Right Lover?
Rufus & Izzy in Love Rufus was an “oops” baby he explained in one of our last couple’s session. The youngest of 13 kids, the closest sibling 15 years older than him. “I was a strange single child since all my brothers and sisters were so much older than me. I mean I have nieces… Read More How We Attach to Our Lover
I’ve found a lack of understanding cheaters with perpetuated blind notions of, “Once a cheater, always a cheater.” That quote comes from vengeance, a poison of understanding relationships & the fallen lover. Cheating is messed up, no doubt, but something to understand so healing can happen for the one who stepped out of the relationship,… Read More Loving Yourself After Cheating
You really messed up in your relationship. What do you need to know and what do you need to do? Let’s first make sure you know what’s a healthy way of resolving the mess up while understanding the traps you can fall into that’ll mess everything up even more so you can make up or… Read More You Cheated, Now What?
To hear more about dealing with a break up check out my weekly Fix Your Fate Podcast. A lot of the confusion around forgiveness and reconciliation in relationships revolves around the definitions of these words and the other words that orbit them. Forgiveness means you don’t hold a grudge and aren’t bitter towards the person… Read More Dealing With a Break Up
We’re in a messed-up time with the uncovering of allegations and truths of mostly men abusing woman in Hollywood & in the political sphere. This article isn’t talking about these guys. There’s plenty of abusive men who use their power and any advantage they have to sexually abuse anyone they can for their own pleasure.… Read More SHOCKING: Men Want to Be Loved Too