Question from Subscriber: What do you say to those people who don’t pursue the meaningful relationship they need and are stuck in the bad relationship they are in because they are afraid to change? You should be afraid of pursuing a meaningful relationship because there are many trials and tribulations to get to a point where you can have a meaningful relationship. Then you have to find someone else who has done their own worthy trials and gone through their…
Here’s a letter from one of my subscribers that we will call “Jacob”. Mr. Ayala My wife decided to have an affair 8 months ago and before I knew about the affair she told me on my 36th Birthday she didn’t know if she wanted to be with me anymore because I was controlling. I didn’t see this coming because she had never said anything to me about being unhappy before this. She said it was not right that she…
There are many questions about the boundaries of igniting passion in your relationships and doing “too much”. I had one of my subscribers to my blog write an e-mail to me about her relationship and sexual fantasies to see if they were “too much”. If you’re interested in having a question answered by a Modern Psychoanalytical Relationship Specialist e-mail me at Adam@Ayala.com. All identifying information is confidential. Letter from Jenny Mr. Ayala, I was reading one of your blogs about how…