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Fear: Destroyer of Love

Our insecurities can passively destroy our relationships or actively destroy them. Today, we’re going to explore how both work to destroy a relationship. The number one killer of relationships I’ve seen that isn’t spoken about is when our insecurities are so strong that we isolate our lovers from their friends. This is different from the… Read More Fear: Destroyer of Love

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How Good Love Starts

Good Love starts with good unconscious attraction. How does this unconscious attraction happen? I remember a client of mine, Rufus, who found himself discovering the unconscious workings of the attraction in his relationship decades after his marriage. Throughout his analysis he learned how that unconscious attraction worked which helped him save his marriage from shattering.… Read More How Good Love Starts

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Loving Yourself After Cheating

I’ve found a lack of understanding cheaters with perpetuated blind notions of, “Once a cheater, always a cheater.” That quote comes from vengeance, a poison of understanding relationships & the fallen lover. Cheating is messed up, no doubt, but something to understand so healing can happen for the one who stepped out of the relationship,… Read More Loving Yourself After Cheating

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You Cheated, Now What?

You really messed up in your relationship. What do you need to know and what do you need to do? Let’s first make sure you know what’s a healthy way of resolving the mess up while understanding the traps you can fall into that’ll mess everything up even more so you can make up or… Read More You Cheated, Now What?