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You Cheated, Now What?

You Cheated, Now What?

You really messed up in your relationship. What do you need to know and what do you need to do? Let’s first make sure you know what’s a healthy way of resolving the mess up while understanding the traps you can fall into that’ll mess everything up even more so you can make up or move on. Learn The Difference What’s the difference between inauthentic resolutions, authentic resolutions and what is the role denial plays in forgiveness? If a couple…

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Dealing With a Break Up

Dealing With a Break Up

To hear more about dealing with a break up check out my weekly Fix Your Fate Podcast. A lot of the confusion around forgiveness and reconciliation in relationships revolves around the definitions of these words and the other words that orbit them. Forgiveness means you don’t hold a grudge and aren’t bitter towards the person who did you wrong. Reconciliation means that you can live civilly with the person who has done you wrong. One distinction between the two is…

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SHOCKING: Men Want to Be Loved Too

SHOCKING: Men Want to Be Loved Too

We’re in a messed-up time with the uncovering of allegations and truths of mostly men abusing woman in Hollywood & in the political sphere. This article isn’t talking about these guys. There’s plenty of abusive men who use their power and any advantage they have to sexually abuse anyone they can for their own pleasure. We’re talking about the good men that you’re looking to date. In my practice I’ve found that guys are neglectful of their wishes in relationships….

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Recovering from Infidelity

Recovering from Infidelity

When you can trust & love yourself again, you can trust & love another person, while letting them love & trust you. Too many of us have had the experience of being cheated on. In some relationships it’s not surprising and in others it seems to come out of nowhere. Either way it’s painful as Hell to find out that your lover cheated on you. It brings up a wide range of feelings in you, from hurt to rage. We…

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Repairing Self-Esteem

Repairing Self-Esteem

Self-esteem is a pop word that isn’t always helpful. It’s confusing understanding what the word even means anymore since it’s used everywhere to mean so many different things while all those people incept the word with different values and assumptions. What is self-esteem? How can you use your understanding of self-esteem in your life in a way that is valuable and curative? Self-esteem creates self-respect because of the feelings and thoughts of your self-worth. When we feel good about ourselves,…

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Rushing into Cheap Forgiveness

Rushing into Cheap Forgiveness

Over the years I’ve found myself understanding many of the hidden and seen issues we have in our relationships as investments. When you forgive someone, it takes away all the energy you’re investing in being angry, resentful, harsh and at some points vengeful. This kind of forgiveness takes time, but not too much time. What do I mean by too much time though? Too much time taken to forgive is an investment in vengeance. This can be seen when you…

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Attracting the Right Lover vs The Same Heartbreaker

Attracting the Right Lover vs The Same Heartbreaker

We get really busy figuring out how to search for the right person and we then start to forget what we really need in a lover. Then, with so many choices, we start to doubt that we know who the right person is, especially if you haven’t clearly thought this through yet. It becomes difficult to trust your instincts, you really shouldn’t since that will just help you attract the same person, not the right person. When searching, you have…

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How to Create Trust in Your Relationship

How to Create Trust in Your Relationship

“You may be deceived if you trust too much, but you will live in torment if you don’t trust enough.” -Frank Crane If we shut ourselves up, never trust, we’ll never have love. If we trust too much, are too giving, we manage to find too much heartache. What do we do? At the core of trust, is reliability. Trust is created when we reliably do what we say we will do. What are some things you can do to…

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6 Actions to Help You Find & Keep Love

6 Actions to Help You Find & Keep Love

Here we go into more depth to find solutions about the problems we explored in the 6 Actions That Stop You from Finding & Keeping Love.   Silence Write down a list of qualities you’re looking for. Not just funny, beautiful and smart, but look for core features you need your partner to have to progress with them in a relationship long term. What political views are you okay with? Figure out the lifestyle, financial parameters, education level, emotional availability,…

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6 Actions That Stop You from Finding & Keeping Love

6 Actions That Stop You from Finding & Keeping Love

6 Actions That Stop You from Finding & Keeping Love Silence. In silence, we will settle for what we “believe” we can get and not seek and ask for what we want. This has the great potential of breeding resentment, boredom and feeling unfulfilled in your relationship or the constant problem of finding the same, unsatisfying partner. Our attractions come from the relationships we observed as children and every relationship thereafter, for better and for worse. We have these ideas…

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