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7 Ways to Stay Lovers and Not X’s When You Live Together

7 Ways to Stay Lovers and Not X’s When You Live Together

  Jamie’s Worry I was at a local coffee shop here in Orlando and Jamie recognized me from my social media and told me about the troubles she is having with her boyfriend now that they have moved in together. Everything was great at first. They moved in together, they got everything organized, the internet was up and they could finally relax.They did get in a small fight while they were moving into their new home, but she felt that…

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The Conditions of Unconditional Love

The Conditions of Unconditional Love

I was at one of my local haunts here in Orlando and someone recognized me and asked me a question about relationships that took both of us some time to really get a grasp of. Laura (don’t worry, her real name is not Laura) told me some about her relationship history and wanted to know if unconditional love actually exists. Laura: “I get so depressed in relationships and I don’t want to do that anymore.” The conversation ended with Laura…

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Your Big Heart Gets in the Way of Real Love

Your Big Heart Gets in the Way of Real Love

It doesn’t matter how much we love our spouses or lovers. We cannot avoid hating, being frustrated and fearing them. The more you know about your own hate, frustration and fear for your lover, the less of an automated motive it will be when you are making decisions. How many times have you reacted in irrational ways towards them that hurt you, them and the relationship? How many times have you just hurt yourself so you didn’t have to deal…

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Work: How to Think as and Be a Successful Man

Work: How to Think as and Be a Successful Man

Work: How to Think as and Be a Successful Man I will always bring you gentlemen back to the mentalities that will create a High Value man within yourself which will help you attract, maintain and evolve a sexually satisfying and value driven Long-Term relationship or marriage with a High Value Woman. We have to examine your work situation and the mentalities behind your work first. You’re going to discover 6 important steps and mentalities in becoming a High Value…

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Recognizing Your Masculinity Against Extreme Feminism

Recognizing Your Masculinity Against Extreme Feminism

How’s it going Gentlemen. I’m continuing from my previous papers on the The Cost of Not Being a Masculine Man, Being the Assertive Narcissist and Why You Will Resist Getting Help for Your Masochism. Reading these will give you fuller context of what we all are exploring, but not necessary to understand the main point of this paper. Different places have been discovering the masculinity devaluing masochism in men and have been calling it out from their perspective. Some groups…

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Why You Will Resist Getting Help for Your Masochism

Why You Will Resist Getting Help for Your Masochism

If you’ve read my papers on the The Cost of Not Being a Masculine Man and Being the Assertive Narcissist, you may be wondering what is the next step. The next step is for me to tell you why you won’t get help with this psychically and how you’ll use external resistances such as money, time, travel and energy as your fake excuses to not do the work If you’re a masochistic man you will resist putting in the work to…

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Being the Assertive Narcissist

Being the Assertive Narcissist

Gentlemen, we’ve heard throughout our lives that men shouldn’t cry and you need to be humble, sweet and thoughtful at all times. We also get the other side that gets tired of that message and tells you to take everything you want. Back and forth culture gives us one extreme message to counter the other extreme message. We need to chill out with the extreme messages. I wrote a paper on the The Cost of Not Being a Masculine Man and…

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The Cost of Not Being a Masculine Man

The Cost of Not Being a Masculine Man

Losing your masculinity is just being a self-hating masochist. I’ve been so struck by Rollo Tomassi telling us that men are the romantics between the sexes. His argument of hypergamy is solid which also made me resistant to the idea because it’s the opposite of what we’re told. Men and women can both agree society and family tells us that women love romance and men love sex. This is why we have always believed that women cheat for “love” and…

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Why Men Are Driven to The Wrong Women?

Why Men Are Driven to The Wrong Women?

  Understand what I’m telling you that others are not. When professionals and good men are trying to understand why we end up with the wrong women we always remember that evolutionary biology exists, the mind exists and external factors exist. We also have to remember that working within the system of biology, the mind and the external world that there is the world of our unconscious beliefs. This is the deepest driving force of our mind that everything else…

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Introverted Men and Relationships: Unconscious Beliefs That Ruin You

Introverted Men and Relationships: Unconscious Beliefs That Ruin You

  The Schizoid Man in Love Don’t be thrown off by the term “schizoid”. Pop-psychology has really corrupted this word to mean mental illness while at the same time some ‘personality trait’ from the Myers-Briggs test. You’ve heard of the word ‘introvert’ and this is what I’m talking about, but you’re actually going to understand that ‘introvert’ doesn’t mean much. If you’re an ‘introvert’ you’re actually a schizoid and this is how you became schizoid, how you function as a…

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