Gentlemen, we’ve heard throughout our lives that men shouldn’t cry and you need to be humble, sweet and thoughtful at all times. We also get the other side that gets tired of that message and tells you to take everything you want. Back and forth culture gives us one extreme message to counter the other… Read More Being the Assertive Narcissist
Losing your masculinity is just being a self-hating masochist. I’ve been so struck by Rollo Tomassi telling us that men are the romantics between the sexes. His argument of hypergamy is solid which also made me resistant to the idea because it’s the opposite of what we’re told. Men and women can both agree society… Read More The Cost of Not Being a Masculine Man
Understand what I’m telling you that others are not. When professionals and good men are trying to understand why we end up with the wrong women we always remember that evolutionary biology exists, the mind exists and external factors exist. We also have to remember that working within the system of biology, the mind… Read More Why Men Are Driven to The Wrong Women?
The Schizoid Man in Love Don’t be thrown off by the term “schizoid”. Pop-psychology has really corrupted this word to mean mental illness while at the same time some ‘personality trait’ from the Myers-Briggs test. You’ve heard of the word ‘introvert’ and this is what I’m talking about, but you’re actually going to understand… Read More Introverted Men and Relationships: Unconscious Beliefs That Ruin You
Greetings, Men of Orlando. How are you doing you High Value Women of Orlando. It’s good to be here with you again. I’ve been getting a lot of flack when I bring up the male that wants to be The Savior. This man is called many other things as well. Saviors stand behind this corrupted… Read More The Savior: Your Beliefs That Attract You to “Crazy” Women
Ever woken up and suddenly faced the undelightful surprise of the woman you are laying next to? This woman you were so attracted to and really enjoyed being with, is a stranger who you have no clue on why you’re even with them. This case usually happens when a man chooses to be in a… Read More Soul Mate Myth: Blue Pill Automated Beliefs That Damage Your Love Life
Having studied psychoanalysis (psychic life and the deep, dark, and unconscious ways humans function) for over 10 years, I’ve found the simplest answer to understanding your relationship with your lover boils down to this: You need what keeps you alive. You desire those who give you what you need, but when you have too much of… Read More Negotiating Desire
There isn’t enough relevant information out there regarding how a man can attract the right lover for his life. There are more YouTube videos on watching paint dry than there are on understanding how men and women can have a long-term relationship that is satisfying. There are definitely videos out there, but they are categorized… Read More Where Can You Look to Become a High-Value Man?
“For every woman who commits suicide after their divorce, nine men commit suicide after their divorce (Kposowa A. J. 2000).” We’re going to get into the reasons for this statistic, but before we do that, know that if you’re living that hell right now and you’re looking for help, I’m a clinician in Orlando, Florida,… Read More Preventing Male Suicide After Divorce